Delights
May 16, 2021
Ross Gay’s Book of Delights (2019) gave a platform to those small moments of joy peppered throughout everyday life. Gay handwrote a delight everyday for one year. In the process, he noted the necessity of actively making room in one’s life for delight. Recognizing what you take delight in is a practice of gratitude and love. It’s a simple invitation to be mindful of what would ordinarily be overlooked. There is something spectacular about the warmth and satisfaction found in the seemingly mundane parts of life. I think that the following outlines the very best of life.
Here are some delights from myself, my friends, family and acquaintances:
From me:
sitting criss-cross applesauce
when you’re passively listening to music and then a song is so good that it captures your attention
stepping into a sunspot on hardwood floor
when a good song that you haven’t heard in a while comes up on the radio
the fact that honey is sold in bear-shaped bottles
ladybugs
when the sun makes the top of your head warm
learning a new word
updating old friends on how your pets are doing
my uncle sends me a photo every time he uses the whitman college mug i got him
the plu code system and those who know it
when my dad sends me photos of my dog (he recently walked through freshly cut grass, turning his paws green)
getting good feedback from a professor
the smell of leaving your window open during the spring or summer
when people are accidentally matching and someone else points it out
cloud watching and guessing what shapes they look like
when you didn’t know the moon was going to be particularly special that evening and you just happen to see it and it’s crazy big or something
the metaphor that something can “scratch your brain”
when people write notes on their palm
exchanging glances with someone
kissing someone on the cheek
the groupings of primary colors and secondary colors
the idea of an after school snack
the sharpness of the air when you’re ice skating
homemade applesauce
the feeling of settling down for a nap
when someone has a blanket around their shoulders and they hug you and encapsulate you in the blanket
eating a big bowl of pho
when the brita is full
when you’re in public and there’s music playing and you see a stranger singing along to a song that you also know
when it’s weirdly bright at night after it snows because the moonlight is reflecting off of the snow
From Leo S:
listening to the turkeys gobble in the evening
walking in the fog
parallel parking on the first attempt
From Ozzie R:
when all of your folded shirts perfectly show the design that’s on the shirt
the streaks left by freshly vacuumed carpet
bed sheets straight out of the dryer
when you push the vacuum over a spot of dirt and it makes a bunch of loud crackles
the hollow sound of stomping on the floor reminds me of my cousins’ houses in la
From Chloe W:
showering after spending all day at the beach and then going somewhere after
when you’re sewing and all the seams line up perfectly
when your friend who works at bon app brings you home fries because he knows you like fries
guessing what states are on the back of quarters with your friends
seeing people hype up each other’s outfits
From Anika M:
when you’re facing the sun and your eyes are closed and you see red as the light goes through your eyelids
when you flip an egg successfully
taking a deep breath
From Hanna K:
clipping your nails
drinking cold water and feeling it in your throat
experiencing solar eclipse with cat who died one year later
From Emma J:
biking past someone’s house and being able to tell what they are cooking for dinner
how sunlight filters through ferns
From Kaitlynne J:
finding one more chocolate in the bag after you thought you ate them all
seeing a new growth on a plant
From Karsten B:
walking outside for the first time in a day
From Alyssa E:
the donut that is always sitting on the dashboard of a subaru in the douglas parking lot
From Amy A:
smelling the air after it just rained
From Natalie T:
when you shave your legs and then get in bed a rub them together like a cricket
From Kylie B:
eating shin ramen
From Juan S:
the baby duckies following their mom on campus!!
From Carsten WB:
finding a frog on the side of the road
From Sile S:
the smell of hot coffee in the morning
From Pranav S:
finishing a glass of water
getting into bed and feeling ur comforter on ur toes
From Jack T:
finishing a paper one minute before the due date
having a quick chat with the bon app staff in cleveland
From Yardena M:
catching a snowflake on your tongue
From Christian WB:
riding the train
From Hallie E:
rediscovering an old song i used to love and still knowing all the words (-,:
From Isaiah B:
hard wood
hot lattes
having unlimited flex
3 stocking my friends in smash
going to the gym for THA PUMP
putting on a clean pair of darn tough socks
From Katherina C:
putting on my contacts and i can see everything super duper clear
From Connor W:
hardwood floor
From Joe J:
when you take your socks off and your feet don’t get like freezing!
From Ravi N:
when the music and the sun just work together all of a sudden
From Katie D:
when you’re near a creek and it smells like wet rocks and damp soil
when your friend gifts you a rock
eating a watermelon slice with juice dripping down your elbows
From Olivia T:
the smell outside after it rains
From Lee T:
picking out earrings for the day
the lilacs in the spring
things shaped as hearts
From Sam W:
drinking a hot beverage and having it warm your entire chest
From Abby M:
my friend likes to view sunsets upside down through her legs and i think that’s beautiful
sleeping so soundly that it leaves you with sheet marks
From Katie D:
finding a new song you love
parking perfectly
From Miguel C:
smoking my brains out
From Will G:
smelling coffee from the coffee maker 🙂
natural light in my bedroom
asmr of keys while doing schoolwork
being reminded of loved ones via random things
From Lexi D:
when someone is crossing the street in front of you and does the little walk jog
From Allison W:
hitting all the green lights
From Lili M:
rain and rainstorms
From Anna A:
curling up on a sunny spot on the couch
From Ben W:
dandelions
From Kaamna R:
when the ratio of coffee to milk is just right
cooking a meal and then getting a moment regardless of how busy that day was and enjoy something i’ve created in peace – delight in nourishment
From Chris S:
putting on warm clothes out of the dryer
getting out of the car and stretching after a long drive
taking off your shoes after a long hike
peeling the plastic off of new things
when you send an email and realize there’s an error and click the undo button before the email goes through
From Molly Jo M:
any soft friendly dogs you can pet. like when you’re walking and you say hi can I pet your dog? and the dog is happy to be pet
From Ellie VG:
when i get an unexpected hello from an acquaintance
when i smile on accident
From Pearl C:
when i’m outside running in the morning and i can feel the warm sun against my skin
when you can just exist in silence with someone